I have been inspired as of late to write a series of essays on the 5th dimensional relationship. What is that? It is a relationship that is experienced from a place of higher dimensional consciousness. It means we choose to react from a place of love rather than ego, from a 5th dimensional place rather than a 3.d place. This means that we choose to use relationships as a tool to transcend patterns rather than as crutches. It also means we flow with our relationships instead of trying to control them. We allow them to serve their purpose even though we may not fully understand what is happening all the time. By default if we chose to be love in the most difficult situations the best we can we will be with our flow and therefore magnetically pulling in the best scenario for all involved.
Resonance determines the who, what, where in your life.
Let resonance create chemistry and let it also slough what no longer serves you away. We destroy many of our relationships because we do not trust our own personal magnetism to draw in and release people according to our frequency. When you focus on expressing yourself, loving yourself you love others, they in turn help you celebrate life. Perhaps they are soul mates who you connect with for the rest of your life or maybe they are more transient and you move out of each others vibrational spectrum. Either way, it is not about your mind logically deciding based on your past it’s about your resonance deciding based on where you are right now. This determination is based on subtle energetic frequencies that your mind cannot actually fully comprehend. These subtle frequencies are connected to the subconscious mind and the higher self which means they have a much deeper understanding of what you need.
Your personal resonance, or your vibrational frequency, is directly connected to your emotional body, your mind and your spirit. That means that when someone does fall away your emotions, mind,and spirit will support that by you feeling good, or at least a sense of relief. Your higherself will communicate with your conscious mind by giving you synchronicities that support that decision.
Making a decision from your mind is most likely based on the hurts from the past and avoiding certain fears about the future. Allowing the natural magnetism to attract and repel what you need for your journey is practicing a 5th dimensional relationship. Yes, it is lofty and idealistic, but there is no need to struggle in your relationship. If you feel it may no longer serve you it will eventually become obvious and you can let it go. Let it become obvious though as that means it has integrated into your conscious mind and will be easier to let go. If it is still growing you, and inspiring you nurture it, be open and in-joy your connection.
Know that by releasing people in our lives we create space for others that are within our spectrum of resonance, we then can experience growth and expansion. If people need to be released it is because they are no longer within your vibrational range. Understand that as we attract people into our lives they are like medicine, they are there to teach us about ourselves so we can heal ourselves. It means that they are within your spectrum and have the potential to help you integrate lessons to continue to take on a higher vibrational frequency.